I don’t like to pick on people’s weaknesses; we all have them. But Friedrich Nietzsche led so many people down the wrong path, I will venture onto that terrain. He said something to the effect, I have my way, you have your way. Which is right? Neither. There is no right way.
Sounds good for a universe with thousands of ways? What about the thousands of wrong ways? Is nothing superior to them? Obviously he didn’t think of that. Why do people hire tennis coaches? Because there’s a best way.
Brother, you’d better find the right way before the game’s over. There may even be several good ways, speaking of tennis, but there’s only one winner.